As I write this post, I have less than 24 hours until I turn 28 years old. I’ve always been the type of person who waits for their birthday in anticipation. Who starts posting months away with a countdown or does a blog wish list of all of the items I want for my birthday. But this year, things seem different.
I don’t know if it’s because of the current state of things or what, but my brain isn’t thinking about me for once. I’m all about taking the day to celebrate myself, but this year, I don’t have a long list of things I want or want to do. I’m content.
Despite the horror show that has been politics over the past year, personally it’s been fantastic. My husband and I bought our first home together. I got accepted into a masters program and start next week. We just took our first beach vacation in seven years. I’m working on a few exciting behind the scenes projects with some amazing women. My job is fantastic. Contentment in my personal life is exactly what I need at 28.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that I have nothing else to learn or give. If the past year has taught me anything, it’s that thinking about people other than yourself is more important than anything else. So, for my 28th year, I’m setting some goals.
Number 1. Continue to seek out justice in the world. Educate others and support those who need it.
Number 2. Don’t let your emotions get the best of you. But don’t be afraid to speak out.
Number 3. Take care of yourself. Emotionally. Physically. Spiritually.
Number 4. Set goals and stick to them. Learn self control, but don’t get upset when you slip up.
Number 5. Have fun. Take risks. Don’t let fear hold you back.
I’m constantly learning how to improve myself as a human being. how to say “no” when it’s necessary. How to stay inspired without getting overwhelmed or overworked. In my 28th year, I hope that these goals can stay at the forefront of my mind and in everything I do.
And because it’s not a birthday post without a good GIF…